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The perfect time.

October 19, 2016 by Christina Santini in Addictions, Depression, Emotional Management, Transformation Keys

When are we ready for change? When the time is right. And the time is always right. Time is the only thing in life we cannot get more of. Nevertheless we tend to wait for that right time, as if only then magic can happen.

I don't know many people who truly ever change.

I do know many people, who say they are waiting for the perfect time. When the time is right, then they will do it. Whatever that may be.

I think there is a part of us, that wants to stay stuck wherever we are.

At least then we know what we've got.

I think sometimes it can be a blessing to lose everything, because only then do we find ourselves able to move on and get unstuck. There is no longer anything to hold onto. Our life has crumbled, so we might as well just move on.

Most of us don't ever really reach that bottom point though. There is always something left. And I think leftovers can be dangerous. It prevents us from creating something new. We keep eating the same old leftovers. Even though we complain about it.

When do you think the time is right for you?

Do you think you will recognize it if the right time ever occurs? Or will the clock just tick right on, while you are busy waiting for the right time.

What is the right time that you are waiting for? Why can't you do it now? For most of us, the answer is not why we can't, but a thin disguise for why we won't. But we don't really like to admit that.

October 19, 2016 /Christina Santini
Addictions, Depression, Emotional Management, Transformation Keys
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